True friend = Lover?

Assalamualaikum and hello!

In my previous post, I wrote about how people with different gender could help make the friendship last longer right?

So I would like to raise a question here for you guys to ponder.

The question is: Is it possible to be ‘just friend’ in a friendship where it involves people with different gender?

Let me elaborate more. Is it actually possible not being in love with your true friends that came from different gender? I think that this is an interesting topic to be discussed right?

We girls, we want someone who could understand us and got all the time in the world to be with us as our shoulder to cry on bla..bla..bla.. What if your true friend has all that criteria? Would you tend to fall in love? Or you have set a gap between special boyfriend vs just plain boyfriend?

It is same goes to man. If what you’re searching for in a girl happen to be in your true friend personality, what will you do? To make things more interesting, both of you had declared that this will be just a friendship but along the way your heart changed and wanted something more than just a friend.

So guys? How?

This kind of situation is very similar to one TV shows called friend zone. It’s always aired on MTV. If you guys never heard of this TV shows before, just click here to watch one of the episode of friend zone. 

Let me know what you think about this topic and leave a comment below.

Till we meet in the next post.