Introduction

As a normal human being surely we do not want to be alone in this big and cruel world. However, backstabbing of a friend, the silent treatment and the provoker used to happen all the time in a friendship no matter how long you have known them. So the question that I would like to raise in this blog is that is there such thing as a true friend? Or a true best friend only exist in fairy tales. Why did I choose this topic is simply because I think that everyone could relate to it and it is close to my heart. 

Important expect of someone's life is a friend.

 First of all, the question that you need to ask yourself is: What type of friend do you keep in your life? Did they bring a positive impact or you or the other way around? Friends that you surround yourself have to have a great value or quality in them because somehow whether you realize it or not you will definitely get influenced by them.         


““Bersahabat dengan orang yang soleh dan dengan orang yang jahat persis seperti berkawan dengan pengedar minyak wangi dan tukang besi (yang menghembus bara api). Pengedar minyak wangi sama ada ia memberi anda sebahagian atau anda membeli bau-bauan daripadanya atau sekurang-kurangnya anda mendapat juga baunya. Manakala tukang besi pula samada ia menyebabkan baju anda terbakar atau anda mendapat bau yang hapak.” (Riwayat Abu Daud)

So, it is clear for us as a Muslim especially, how crucial it is to know what type of friends we has in our life. But this Hadith can be also used by non-muslim because logically, our friends are like a mirror to us. It reflects who we are as a person. If we surround ourselves with bad people, you will be bad but if you surround yourself with the good people, you will be good. That simple. Selection of friends are important so that it would not cause you any heartbreak and headache at the same time hahahaha. Read more about hadith regarding friends here

Referring to the above statement, do you know that by choosing friends, it could help you save your headache and also avoid any heart break from happening in your friendship? Here is the reason behind my statement.  You know, when you be around your close friends, of course you want to be able to express yourself, be nobody else but yourself and just have fun and catch a good memories. So why do you need to crack your head to think about someone who don’t know how to value you as a friend?

I don’t ask you to be choosy or what not in selecting a friend, but then it’s enough if you could find any good value in them.

Till, we meet in next entry!