Monday 31 August 2015
thank you thank you.
Assalamualaikum
and hello!
So
guys, this would be my last entry for this blog. I know that nothing much to
shout about regarding my topic. But all of us had and has a friend right? no
matter true or not. I would say that true friend do exist in this world but it
depends on the individual who are involve in hat friendship.
If
we chose to be and stay connected with our friends, there are actually a lot of
method in preserving one. All it takes is just effort and tolerance and
appreciation. I think that are the best ingredient in making or finding a true
friend.
Throughout
your life, you will encounter a lot of people. Some were goods and some were
not. Take that as a lesson to you to be better as a person.
One
last piece of advice from me would be about appreciation. Do appreciate life
and people in it. You live once so whatever you did, make it count!
I
just want to thank you for your time to read this blog. Take care.
Hope
to see you in near future and I hope we could be friends.
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| sayonara guys! |
True friend = Lover?
Assalamualaikum
and hello!
In
my previous post, I wrote about how people with different gender could help
make the friendship last longer right?
So
I would like to raise a question here for you guys to ponder.
The
question is: Is it possible to be ‘just friend’ in a friendship where it
involves people with different gender?
Let
me elaborate more. Is it actually possible not being in love with your true
friends that came from different gender? I think that this is an interesting
topic to be discussed right?
We
girls, we want someone who could understand us and got all the time in the
world to be with us as our shoulder to cry on bla..bla..bla.. What if your true
friend has all that criteria? Would you tend to fall in love? Or you have set a
gap between special boyfriend vs just plain boyfriend?
It
is same goes to man. If what you’re searching for in a girl happen to be in
your true friend personality, what will you do? To make things more
interesting, both of you had declared that this will be just a friendship but
along the way your heart changed and wanted something more than just a friend.
So
guys? How?
This kind of situation is very similar to one TV shows called friend zone. It’s always aired on MTV. If you guys never heard of this TV shows before, just click here to watch one of the episode of friend zone.
Let
me know what you think about this topic and leave a comment below.
Till
we meet in the next post.
Which one are you?
Assalamualaikum
and hello!
I
can’t believe this is my tenth entry already!
So,
how are you guys doing? Do you finally or actually forgive and forget? If you
did, you’ll need to give yourself a pat behind your shoulder. It shows how
matured you are as a person.
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| CONGRATULATIONS! |
Have
you ever wonder, does gender plays an important role in order for a friendship
to last longer?
Personally,
I would prefer someone with different gender to be my true friend. You know how
true friends work right? You can share almost everything with that particular
person. You are not afraid to show your true colors and the other side of you
that not many people knew.
So
I find it easy to be like that with a friend with different gender. Don’t get
me wrong, I like to be friends with girl as well but my preference for a true
friend would be a guy. So it’s up to you guys which one you prefer.
Happy reading!
Till
we meet in the next post.
Start your engine and move forward.
Assalamualaikum
and hello everyone!
Every
friendship, there will always be an argument about something regardless big or
small the issue is. In my point of view, I would say that you’ll be lying if
you say that you never argue with your friend or about your friend.
Okay,
so for today’s topic is forgive and forget! Why do we need to do so you may
ask?
Easy.
Revenge and hatred are not good you know. You are living in a stressful way and
it will later backfire on you. So, I’ll say lets move on I shall say people.
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| Row..row..row.. your boat! Row your boat forward people. |
Lets
forgive and forget. Start small by just saying hello. Remember my last post? They
used to be someone meaningful to you. You know what, don’t be that kind of
people who judge others simply because they had done ONE mistake. Instead,
remember all those memorable thing that you’ve been through together. In that
way, it will help you to forgive and forget.
Another
thing about getting mad at someone is that it doesn’t last long. No matter how
much you try to hate them, there will be a moment where you’ll kinda miss all
those moment that you’re being silly together.
You
know how’s life works right? So always ask yourself is it worth the fight?
Till
we meet in the next post!
Silent treatment
Asslamualaikum
and hello!
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| fuhh..fuhh..fuhh |
Have
you experienced this before?
You
know this special friend whom you thought are your special friend suddenly just
disappear without any solid reason? It happened to me though.
Trust
me it hurts badly. I felt that I didn’t done enough to keep that one person
remain in my life at least for now. But to think of it back, why should I suffer
just only for one person, if person value me as much as I value them (I don’t want
to mentioned the gender nor the name in here) they will never did what they did
to me in the first place. One more think I’ve learn so far is that don’t ever
be a hypocrite person. If you don’t like something/someone don’t pretend that
you did.
All
this hypocrisy thingy would just create more provoker and the backstabber. This
is when the silent treatment would take place. And more advice I could give is
that, confront your friend if you don’t like his or her action. Don’t aspect
them to be the sorcerer and predict what is wrong with you and surely just
never listen to others people story because story could be created to make
things interesting. You can take this advice if you are planning to keep them
in your life lah.
But
then again, if you don’t want to be friends with them anymore, just end things
nicely. Who are we kidding? They used to be that happy pill for you one right?
So why not you start good and you end good as well? No hard feelings.
Till
we meet in the next entry!
Sunday 30 August 2015
Pick and choose
Assalamualaikum
and hello!
What
do you guys do in order to fit in a group of friends? Do you change? Or simply
be yourself?
I’ll
say be yourself is the best way to know who are your true friends. Don’t bother
to think about others perception because you could never impress or satisfy
every person that you met. Its nature you know, some would like you well some
will not so what’s the point to change and be someone else?
When
you out your best effort for someone, you’ll get hurt if they say that it is
not enough. So save the headache.
Be happy! There are a lot of other things
better to do rather than trying to impress someone. Just remember that, if they
want you, they will need to accept your flaws. But, change slowly to a better
person for it is not wrong to improvise yourself to be better right? Make sure
you don’t do it because of other people.
Change yourself if you think that
change is the best way.
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| Do you have what it takes? |
Till we meet in the next entry!
Danger ahead
Assalamualaikum
and hello!
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| CAUTION! |
As
you guys can see, today I’m going to write about the precaution that you need
to know or take in a friendship. I will state 3 points in this entry. So let’s
begin.
1)
People do come and go
Because
of that, there is really nothing you need to fear and be sad about. Start
questioning yourself, did you change? Or you will always remain the same with
that particular friends? So if you did, you’ll answer your own question.
2)
Know your limit
Each
and every one of us have our limitation towards everything right? know your
limit before everything. What did I meant by this is that, just know how much
you could tolerate. Because in a friendship, toleration is very important. If
you don’t know how to tolerate well with your friends, then what’s the point of
having them in your life? Unless you want to take benefit lah kan? Hahaha just
kidding.
3)
Life must go on no matter what
Be
reasonable with yourself. If you are now going through hard time due to a
friend, my advice would be just get up on your feet and start walking. It’s
okay to turn back once in a while because that is just part of moving on
process. Sooner or later, you’ll be amazed on your own achievement. But you
need to start somewhere. Don’t just sit there then expect to see miracle happen
in front of you. Remember! Miracle happened to those who are trying!
That
is all for this entry. I it gave you a little bit of inspiration.
Till
we meet in the next entry!
Tick tock..Tick Tock
Assalamualaikum
and hello!
You
know guys sometimes I keep questioning myself. To get yourself a true friend,
do you need luck?
Because
the joy and happiness in a friendship did not last long for me. Yes, I had
experienced it before but somehow I don’t know it did not lasts. Is it me or I
don’t know. I really envy people who can stay connected and remain friends from
the days where you ate deng dang up until you could afford a kinder Bueno now.
Hahaha..
You
know how people change right? So nothing will remain the same. Time flies,
people change. That’s for sure. If you get the chance to be in a moment with
all your friends regardless from primary and secondary school, college,
universities, workplace etc. Just be on those moment and embrace them because
you know for fact that it might or will never happened again.
I’m
not bringing the negative vibe here. But that is reality. Whether you like it
or not, you’ll need to accept it.
Be
appreciative then people. I know I keep repeating it over and over. But it is
true. Time is gold because every seconds count. What you get now, you might
never get it again. If you ever mistreated a friend whom always there for you
then I’ll say you are stupid. Just bear in mind not everyone is lucky to have a
friend who treasured them for who they are without having any hidden agenda
behind it. While here you are treating them like a rubbish.
Here is a video to show what is friend
So, don't settle for less!
Till we meet again in the next entry!
p/s:
sorry for being such an ‘emo gurl’ in this entry.
Ups and Downs
Assalamualaikum
and hello!
Moving
forward to another topic people! Okay, as today I am going to write about the
ups and downs in a friendship.
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| Wait, what's going on? |
When
you decide you wanted to try a ride on a roller coaster, you will feel all
those mixed up feeling, whether you make it through, whether the roller coaster
is safe enough etc. But the moment you step down from the ride, you wanted to
give it another shot without hesitation.
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| It is all about trust |
When there’s trust, there will always be the contrast of it which is betrayal. Oh well you know, when there’s white, there will always be black right? Yin and Yang. Is it normal to be betrayed by your friends? I would say yes. Because in every friendship, nothing, I repeat NOTHING would go as the way you plan it to be. No matter how nice you are towards them or no matter how long you’ve known them there will always be a moment of heart break there.
Mr/Mrs Perfect 10
Hello
and assalamualaikum again!
So
today topic is the criteria of a true friend. What do you seek in a person
until you could call them as your true friend? Is it who always going to be
there for you no matter what or the one who always have time for you no matter
how busy they are? Or the one who pays his or her attention solidly to you?
Well
truth to be told, nobody is perfect. We need to be able to accept flaws in our
friendship. That’s for sure. Like I mentioned in first entry. You don’t need to
be choosy to find a friend a friend because you will definitely end up alone.
So the key point here is to find someone who can give a positive impact towards
you in every way they possibly could.
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| Perfection! |
Mr/Mrs
perfect 10 would definitely won’t be happening in a friendship. It’s not about
who can be better than who but how you accept and complement each other flaws
that makes you a true friend to someone. You see here, friendship is like a
marriage. You want someone to be a true friend to you, you need to do the same
thing. What you give is what you get.
What
you give, you get back. Yup! That is the equation. You know sometimes when you
are busy wanting to impress others by being the perfect 10, you could lose a
lot of potential friends. Just be yourself and just ignore the haters! Life is
short bro and sis. So live your life to the fullest while you still can. Meet
and greet all people. Don’t be choosy. Make the bad one as a lesson for you
while the angelic one as your guidance to be better as a friend.
Just
remember guys. No regret!
Till
we meet in the next entry!
p/s:
A TRUE FRIEND ACCEPT THEIR FRIENDS FLAWS!
Knock knock. Who's there?
Assalamualaikum and hello! So, let us
continue with a new topic regarding this true friend issue.
I am sure that each and every one of
you have heard the phrase ‘a friend in need is a friend indeed. In my opinion,
every true friend need to have this quality in them because yeah, there are a
true friend remember? But how do we practice to be this kind of person? Let me
write this in an equation.
If
you want people to appreciate you = you need to appreciate people
Just like respect, you need to earn
them. The same concept apply in the theory of appreciation. Don’t expect people
will always going to be there for you if you don’t know how to appreciate other
people.
A true friend I might say, they will stay no
matter rain or shine, ups and downs. They will definitely stay. But how do we
find this kind of loyal people? Simple. When you are in a bad shape, observe
who sticks around and who walks away. A big reminder for you and me, IF we ever
encounter that special kind of friend in our life, keep it because trust me
that kind of quality is hard to find in people nowadays.
I
think there is nothing much to say in this entry because the key to find and
determined who got the criteria of the phrase ‘A friend in need is a friend
indeed’ is someone who can learn and know how to appreciate other people.
Because without it, a friendship did not have any sentimental value no more.
Till
we meet in the next entry!
Introduction
As a normal human being surely we do not want to
be alone in this big and cruel world. However, backstabbing of a friend, the
silent treatment and the provoker used to happen all the time in a friendship
no matter how long you have known them. So the question that I would like to
raise in this blog is that is there such thing as a true friend? Or a true best
friend only exist in fairy tales. Why did I choose this topic is simply because
I think that everyone could relate to it and it is close to my heart.
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| Important expect of someone's life is a friend. |
First
of all, the question that you need to ask yourself is: What type of friend do
you keep in your life? Did they bring a positive impact or you or the other way
around? Friends that you surround yourself have to have a great value or
quality in them because somehow whether you realize it or not you will
definitely get influenced by them.
““Bersahabat dengan orang yang soleh dan dengan orang yang jahat persis seperti berkawan dengan pengedar minyak wangi dan tukang besi (yang menghembus bara api). Pengedar minyak wangi sama ada ia memberi anda sebahagian atau anda membeli bau-bauan daripadanya atau sekurang-kurangnya anda mendapat juga baunya. Manakala tukang besi pula samada ia menyebabkan baju anda terbakar atau anda mendapat bau yang hapak.” (Riwayat Abu Daud)
Referring to the above statement, do you know that by choosing friends, it could help you save your headache and also avoid any heart break from happening in your friendship? Here is the reason behind my statement. You know, when you be around your close friends, of course you want to be able to express yourself, be nobody else but yourself and just have fun and catch a good memories. So why do you need to crack your head to think about someone who don’t know how to value you as a friend?
““Bersahabat dengan orang yang soleh dan dengan orang yang jahat persis seperti berkawan dengan pengedar minyak wangi dan tukang besi (yang menghembus bara api). Pengedar minyak wangi sama ada ia memberi anda sebahagian atau anda membeli bau-bauan daripadanya atau sekurang-kurangnya anda mendapat juga baunya. Manakala tukang besi pula samada ia menyebabkan baju anda terbakar atau anda mendapat bau yang hapak.” (Riwayat Abu Daud)
So,
it is clear for us as a Muslim especially, how crucial it is to know what type
of friends we has in our life. But this Hadith can be also used by non-muslim
because logically, our friends are like a mirror to us. It reflects who we are
as a person. If we surround ourselves with bad people, you will be bad but if
you surround yourself with the good people, you will be good. That simple.
Selection of friends are important so that it would not cause you any
heartbreak and headache at the same time hahahaha. Read more about hadith regarding friends here
Referring to the above statement, do you know that by choosing friends, it could help you save your headache and also avoid any heart break from happening in your friendship? Here is the reason behind my statement. You know, when you be around your close friends, of course you want to be able to express yourself, be nobody else but yourself and just have fun and catch a good memories. So why do you need to crack your head to think about someone who don’t know how to value you as a friend?
I
don’t ask you to be choosy or what not in selecting a friend, but then it’s
enough if you could find any good value in them.
Till,
we meet in next entry!
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