Monday 31 August 2015
thank you thank you.
Assalamualaikum
and hello!
So
guys, this would be my last entry for this blog. I know that nothing much to
shout about regarding my topic. But all of us had and has a friend right? no
matter true or not. I would say that true friend do exist in this world but it
depends on the individual who are involve in hat friendship.
If
we chose to be and stay connected with our friends, there are actually a lot of
method in preserving one. All it takes is just effort and tolerance and
appreciation. I think that are the best ingredient in making or finding a true
friend.
Throughout
your life, you will encounter a lot of people. Some were goods and some were
not. Take that as a lesson to you to be better as a person.
One
last piece of advice from me would be about appreciation. Do appreciate life
and people in it. You live once so whatever you did, make it count!
I
just want to thank you for your time to read this blog. Take care.
Hope
to see you in near future and I hope we could be friends.
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| sayonara guys! |
True friend = Lover?
Assalamualaikum
and hello!
In
my previous post, I wrote about how people with different gender could help
make the friendship last longer right?
So
I would like to raise a question here for you guys to ponder.
The
question is: Is it possible to be ‘just friend’ in a friendship where it
involves people with different gender?
Let
me elaborate more. Is it actually possible not being in love with your true
friends that came from different gender? I think that this is an interesting
topic to be discussed right?
We
girls, we want someone who could understand us and got all the time in the
world to be with us as our shoulder to cry on bla..bla..bla.. What if your true
friend has all that criteria? Would you tend to fall in love? Or you have set a
gap between special boyfriend vs just plain boyfriend?
It
is same goes to man. If what you’re searching for in a girl happen to be in
your true friend personality, what will you do? To make things more
interesting, both of you had declared that this will be just a friendship but
along the way your heart changed and wanted something more than just a friend.
So
guys? How?
This kind of situation is very similar to one TV shows called friend zone. It’s always aired on MTV. If you guys never heard of this TV shows before, just click here to watch one of the episode of friend zone.
Let
me know what you think about this topic and leave a comment below.
Till
we meet in the next post.
Which one are you?
Assalamualaikum
and hello!
I
can’t believe this is my tenth entry already!
So,
how are you guys doing? Do you finally or actually forgive and forget? If you
did, you’ll need to give yourself a pat behind your shoulder. It shows how
matured you are as a person.
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| CONGRATULATIONS! |
Have
you ever wonder, does gender plays an important role in order for a friendship
to last longer?
Personally,
I would prefer someone with different gender to be my true friend. You know how
true friends work right? You can share almost everything with that particular
person. You are not afraid to show your true colors and the other side of you
that not many people knew.
So
I find it easy to be like that with a friend with different gender. Don’t get
me wrong, I like to be friends with girl as well but my preference for a true
friend would be a guy. So it’s up to you guys which one you prefer.
Happy reading!
Till
we meet in the next post.
Start your engine and move forward.
Assalamualaikum
and hello everyone!
Every
friendship, there will always be an argument about something regardless big or
small the issue is. In my point of view, I would say that you’ll be lying if
you say that you never argue with your friend or about your friend.
Okay,
so for today’s topic is forgive and forget! Why do we need to do so you may
ask?
Easy.
Revenge and hatred are not good you know. You are living in a stressful way and
it will later backfire on you. So, I’ll say lets move on I shall say people.
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| Row..row..row.. your boat! Row your boat forward people. |
Lets
forgive and forget. Start small by just saying hello. Remember my last post? They
used to be someone meaningful to you. You know what, don’t be that kind of
people who judge others simply because they had done ONE mistake. Instead,
remember all those memorable thing that you’ve been through together. In that
way, it will help you to forgive and forget.
Another
thing about getting mad at someone is that it doesn’t last long. No matter how
much you try to hate them, there will be a moment where you’ll kinda miss all
those moment that you’re being silly together.
You
know how’s life works right? So always ask yourself is it worth the fight?
Till
we meet in the next post!
Silent treatment
Asslamualaikum
and hello!
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| fuhh..fuhh..fuhh |
Have
you experienced this before?
You
know this special friend whom you thought are your special friend suddenly just
disappear without any solid reason? It happened to me though.
Trust
me it hurts badly. I felt that I didn’t done enough to keep that one person
remain in my life at least for now. But to think of it back, why should I suffer
just only for one person, if person value me as much as I value them (I don’t want
to mentioned the gender nor the name in here) they will never did what they did
to me in the first place. One more think I’ve learn so far is that don’t ever
be a hypocrite person. If you don’t like something/someone don’t pretend that
you did.
All
this hypocrisy thingy would just create more provoker and the backstabber. This
is when the silent treatment would take place. And more advice I could give is
that, confront your friend if you don’t like his or her action. Don’t aspect
them to be the sorcerer and predict what is wrong with you and surely just
never listen to others people story because story could be created to make
things interesting. You can take this advice if you are planning to keep them
in your life lah.
But
then again, if you don’t want to be friends with them anymore, just end things
nicely. Who are we kidding? They used to be that happy pill for you one right?
So why not you start good and you end good as well? No hard feelings.
Till
we meet in the next entry!
Sunday 30 August 2015
Pick and choose
Assalamualaikum
and hello!
What
do you guys do in order to fit in a group of friends? Do you change? Or simply
be yourself?
I’ll
say be yourself is the best way to know who are your true friends. Don’t bother
to think about others perception because you could never impress or satisfy
every person that you met. Its nature you know, some would like you well some
will not so what’s the point to change and be someone else?
When
you out your best effort for someone, you’ll get hurt if they say that it is
not enough. So save the headache.
Be happy! There are a lot of other things
better to do rather than trying to impress someone. Just remember that, if they
want you, they will need to accept your flaws. But, change slowly to a better
person for it is not wrong to improvise yourself to be better right? Make sure
you don’t do it because of other people.
Change yourself if you think that
change is the best way.
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| Do you have what it takes? |
Till we meet in the next entry!
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